What is holistic counselling?
Holistic counselling offers a compassionate space to explore life’s challenges without the fear of being misunderstood. It’s a place where your struggles are met with care, and your spiritual path is honoured, supporting you to feel more grounded and capable when things are hard. But what exactly does “holistic” mean in the context of therapy? Let’s dive into what makes holistic counselling different and why it might be just what you’re looking for.
A Whole-Person Approach
Holistic counselling is rooted in the idea that we’re more than our thoughts or emotions. It looks at the whole person - mind, body, and soul - because all these parts are connected. When one area is struggling, it can ripple out and affect everything else. For example, if you’re feeling overwhelmed emotionally, you might notice physical symptoms like tension in your shoulders or difficulty sleeping. By addressing all parts of who you are, holistic counselling helps you find balance and a deeper sense of well-being.
This might look like exploring why your energetic body feels out of sync or how a recent lunar phase has amplified your emotions. Maybe you’ve noticed that your intuition feels blocked, or you’re carrying the weight of emotional energy that isn’t even yours. Together, we can unravel those layers.
It’s Not One-Size-Fits-All
Life is messy and complicated. What works for one person may not work for another. Holistic counselling recognises that your path is unique, and your healing should reflect that. It’s not about cookie-cutter solutions or quick fixes. Instead, it’s about creating a space where your individuality is celebrated, and your personal needs are at the center of the work we do together.
For example, if you feel most connected to your inner self during rituals, we might work together to design grounding practices that integrate candle magic or intention-setting. Or if your practice involves working with tarot, we could use your favorite deck as a tool for self-reflection during sessions. Holistic counselling adapts to fit you and your spiritual tools, not the other way around.
Honouring Your Spiritual Path
What sets holistic counselling apart is how it welcomes spirituality into the conversation. Whether you feel deeply connected to a specific spiritual practice or are simply curious about your place in the universe, holistic counselling provides a safe space to explore that side of yourself. It’s not about pushing any particular beliefs. Instead, it’s about honouring your journey and helping you find meaning in your experiences.
This might mean diving into the archetypes of the divine feminine or exploring how ancestral patterns are influencing your current struggles. Maybe you’ve had a powerful dream that feels like a message or guidance, and you want help interpreting its deeper meaning. Holistic counselling creates space to explore those magical and spiritual elements of life in a practical way.
The Mind-Body Connection
Have you ever noticed how stress can show up in your body? Maybe your stomach gets tied in knots, or your heart races when you’re anxious. That’s because our minds and bodies are constantly communicating. Holistic counselling pays attention to this connection. Together, we explore how your physical sensations, emotions, and thoughts interact.
For example, if you feel emotionally drained after a ritual, we might look at ways to protect and cleanse your energy, like creating a shielding practice or using crystals such as black tourmaline for grounding. Or, if your body feels heavy and stagnant, we might explore movement practices like intuitive dancing or spending time barefoot on the earth to reconnect with your natural rhythm.
Why Holistic Counselling?
Life can be overwhelming, and it’s easy to feel disconnected from yourself or stuck in patterns that don’t serve you. Holistic counselling is about more than just talking through problems, it’s about rediscovering who you truly are. It’s about feeling seen, heard, and understood in a way that honours all of you, not just the parts you feel comfortable sharing.
Here are a few reasons why people turn to holistic counselling:
Stress and Anxiety: When the weight of the world feels like too much to carry, holistic counselling helps you find tools to feel more capable and calm. For instance, we might explore how working with the cycles of the moon can help you process emotions in a more intuitive way.
Life Transitions: Big changes can leave you feeling unsettled. Whether it’s a new job, a breakup, or a spiritual awakening, holistic counselling offers support through those shifts. This might mean exploring how to integrate new spiritual practices or embrace shadow work.
Burnout: If you’re feeling drained and disconnected from your purpose, this approach helps you reconnect with what truly matters. We might explore connecting with the elements to reignite your spark or creating a daily ritual to anchor your energy.
Exploring Spirituality: If you’re on a spiritual path (or curious about starting one), holistic counselling gives you a safe space to explore those questions. For example, you might want to deepen your understanding of your natal chart or work with archetypes like Hecate to navigate crossroads in your life.
What to Expect in a Session
Every session is different because every person is different. Here’s what you might experience:
A Safe Space: This is your time to talk about what’s on your heart without fear of judgment. Whether it’s the struggle of feeling disconnected from your craft or navigating day-to-day challenges, this space is yours.
Exploration of Patterns: We look at what’s been holding you back and what’s possible for your future. For instance, if you’ve noticed recurring themes in your tarot spreads, we can explore the underlying messages together.
Practical Tools: From mindfulness exercises to grounding techniques, you’ll leave with strategies you can use in your everyday life. For example, we might create affirmations that align with your personal spellwork.
Breaking Down Myths
Holistic counselling isn’t about waving crystals around or chanting (unless that’s your thing!). It’s not “woo-woo,” and it’s not about bypassing hard feelings with positivity. Instead, it’s grounded in care and connection. It’s about looking at the deeper layers of your life and finding ways to move forward that feel true to you.
For example, we might talk about the shadow side of self-care and how to create boundaries without guilt, or how to use simple altar work as a way to anchor your intentions.
HOW DO I KNOW IF IT’S RIGHT FOR ME?
I offer online counselling worldwide, so wherever you are, support is just a click away. To see if we’re a good fit, book your free intro call. We will cover: the issues and challenges you’re facing, the expected outcomes from attending counselling, and an overview of what the counselling journey looks like.